I went to school to learn, spent long hours in the library and lab, and was a whore for knowledge. Many of my friends were/are the same way, and are very successful post college. We also partied our asses off, made a million and one friends, and had a hell of time doing it. And some even managed to be competitive athletes at the D-I or club level. Don't begrudge us for it, or think there is an inverse correlation between beer consumed or frat you joined, and willingness to learn/do work.