> As for changes that are backward incompatible, you can still manage them with application level techniques, such as rolling out servers or simply allow two different versions of the class to exist at the same time (JRebel does that, as do other a few other products in the JVM ecosystem).
Neither of these allow for the whole reason Erlang has hot code upgrade in the first place: allowing to upgrade the code on one side of a TCP connection without dropping the connection to the other side. Tell me how to do that with a static type system :)
Tomcat (and other app servers) has support for doing hot reloads of Java web apps while not reloading the HTTP layer (and not dropping TCP connections).
I have implemented a similar system for JRuby apps running inside a Servlet container. There are many caveats. I don't actually recommend it because for a while you're using nearly twice the memory (and JRuby is particularly memory hungry). Also there are many ways to leak the old class definitions such that they are not GC'd (e.g. thread locals). But it's certainly possible.
I suspect that Erlang, Java, and all languages are in the same boat: some parts can be upgraded live in the VM while other parts require a full restart (maybe coordinating with multiple nodes and a load balancer to achieve zero-downtime).
Out of curiosity, where/why would such an exotic feature be needed in today's internet architectures where you always front a group of servers with a load balancer ?
Not all Internet protocols are HTTP. If you're running a service where long-lived connections are the norm, "simply fronting a bunch of servers with a load balancer" can require a pretty smart load balancer. E.g. IMAP connections often last hours or even days, and are required to maintain a degree of statefulness.
Not everything is a website! Also, not everything is stateless. Consider writing a chat application for the web for example and letting users on one page communicate with another one.
Neither of these allow for the whole reason Erlang has hot code upgrade in the first place: allowing to upgrade the code on one side of a TCP connection without dropping the connection to the other side. Tell me how to do that with a static type system :)