Nah, I was ready for children 3 years ago, just hadn't found the right woman until two years ago. Now I'm the proud parent of a 1 year old. I never wanted to have kids until about 3 years ago. I knew I wasn't ready then. Our kid wasn't an accident, she was planned, and I am glad that our plan worked out. She's a delight, and I love every minute that I spend with her.
The decision to have a child isn't about vanity, or narcissism. You have to put up with being kicked, vomited on, abused and hated when you become a father / mother. That comes with the territory. You have to put someone above yourself, and it really is a humbling experience.
The decision to have a child isn't about vanity, or narcissism. You have to put up with being kicked, vomited on, abused and hated when you become a father / mother. That comes with the territory. You have to put someone above yourself, and it really is a humbling experience.