I am very much not an AI skeptic, I use AI every day for work, and it's quite clear to me that most of the layoffs of the past few years are correcting for the absurd over hiring from the Covid era. Every software company really convinced themselves that they needed like 2-3x the workforce they actually did because "the world changed". Then it became clear that the world in fact did not fundamentally change in the ways they thought.
Chat GPT just happened to come out around the same time so we get all this misattribution
And Startups and SMB's are more open to attributing it to efficiency gains due to AI.
If you aren't seeing it then probably it's because you are in a niche vertical. Which is great for you, but not representative on the whole.