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		sapphicsnail 20 days ago \| parent \| context \| favorite \| on: Criticisms of “The Body Keeps the Score” That pressure is largely coming from other men. I don't know many women who want to date a guy who's unable to be vulnerable. I think if men made more space for each other to be something other than angry y'all would find life a lot more pleasant.

lmm 20 days ago [–]

> That pressure is largely coming from other men.

Not my experience.

> I don't know many women who want to date a guy who's unable to be vulnerable.

Indeed, at least in theory. Unfortunately they also don't want to date a guy who's shown actual vulnerability to them.

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