Honestly I used to be on the strict noscript JavaScript hate train.
But if your site works fast. Loads fast. With _a little_ JS that actually improves the functionality+usability in? I think that's completely fine. Minimal JS for the win.
I want the basic functionality to work without JS.
But we have a working application and users are not hating it and used to it.
We rely on modals heavily. And for that I added (custom) JS. It's way simpler than alternatives and some things we do are not even possible without JS/WASM (via JS apis to manipulate the DOM) today.
I am pragmatic.
But as you mentioned it, personally I also use NoScript a lot and if a site refuses to load without JS it's a hard sell to me if I don't know it already.
Building a new app at work using Web Components and WebSockets for dynamism. I’m using Bulma for CSS, which is still about 300KiB. However, the site loads instantly. I’m not using a Javascript framework or bundler or any of that (not even npm!), just vanilla Javascript. It’s a dream to program and I love not having the complexity of a framework taking up space in my brain.
My rule of thumb is to render HTML where the state actually lives.
In a huge majority of cases I come across that is on the server. Some things really are client-side only though, think temporary state responding to user interactions.
Either way I also try really hard to make sure the UI is at least functional without JS. There are times that isn't possible, but those are pretty rare in my experience.
A better example would be dynamically loading the list of options where it is very long and loading the entire list would make the page size much larger.
It's a blast. It's faster and way more resilient. No more state desync between frontend and backend.
I admit there is a minimum of javascript (currently a few hundred lines) for convenience.
I'll add a bit more to add the illusion this is still a SPA.
I'll kill about 40k lines of React that way and about 20k lines of Kotlin.
I'll have to rewrite about 30k lines of backend code though.
Still, I love it.