Hate almost always comes from people who haven't used PHP in a very long time or touched it briefly at some point. Fanboyism serves no purpose. Experienced developers understand that programming languages are just tools each with their own trade-offs.
A good programmer doesn't really care about the langage itself, but rather whether the language is the right tool for the job.
For example, Erlang is painful to adapt to, but in some cases (example: if you build a Messenger app) it will be the best.
It doesn't mean that Erlang is a bad language at all, it is designed for a main purpose in mind.
It's normal to see junior developers and low-quality packages in PHP, JavaScript, Java or Python, it's because these languages are well-documented and rather accessible.
There is no point in making a language needlessly complex.
It's not any different to my point. You can use a hammer to hammer in a screw it doesn't make it fit for the job but it will work up to a certain extend. Similarly you can make a messenger app in PHP but you are better off using Erlang or maybe Node.
