But there is something to be said for making a bunch of money for a short amount of time and have enough to be buying your house outright. That will set you up for an easier life in the future where you do not need to be a "wage slave" just so you can keep up with the monthly rent or mortgage payments.
Having a guaranteed roof over your head whatever happens (even if you can only afford candles and basic pasta to eat) frees you up a lot. I guess in America it probably doesn't help much since you might need medical treatment one day so you'll need several hundred thousand dollars in reserve for day to day medical expenses, but anywhere else in the world you could live quite happily on the odd small contracting job here and there if you know you have zero housing costs (or close to zero when considering maintenance and taxes etc)
As I understand it, US health insurance often just entirely nopes-out and tries to find any possible excuse not to cover your illness.
And even if they do cover you, from what I understand you still need to actually pay some percentage of the hugely inflated costs yourself.
I have a cousin in Florida who was charged $700 for some cortisone cream, but "good news" they only had to pay 20% because their insurance covered it! That is still $140 for something that in the UK is approx £2/$3 (three) (e.g. https://www.expresschemist.co.uk/hydrocortisone-cream.html), assuming you need to pay at all (many people get these things entirely free, and if not it will be at some fixed peppercorn price regardless of what the drugs actually are).
If basic skin creams are 700 bucks, I can't imagine what actual treatment costs. You'll want to keep a significant buffer of cash in case you are unfortunately sick one day, otherwise if you cannot pay your medical bills then I presume they will declare you bankrupt and force you to sell your house to pay the bills. The last thing you want if you have a heart attack or cancer is that your kids now also don't have a home as well as you not being there to support them etc. To me it feels irresponsible to just trust that insurance will cover you when in reality there is a not insignificant risk that you will not be covered and instead have some huge bill arrive one day that you cannot pay.
I'm, unfortunately, familiar with hospitals. It's not as bad as you claim here, that anecdote seems wildly wrong.
What does happen is the hospital bills you $50 for what amounts to a bottle of Tylenol. The insurance provider says no, we only pay $8 for Tylenol, and the hospital relents and charges $8.
If you don't have insurance to call them on their inflated pricing you end up with the rather obscene bill. As an individual you have precious little pull other than, will you discount if I pay it all now? Which they usually will. This depends on having that ability, and 30% off doesn't make up for a 400%+ markup.
But hospitals have to pull a profit despite dealing with tons of regulations and non-paying patients they have to treat anyway. So as a result they bleed who they can, it's a mess.
Sorry but you are misinformed about health insurance in the US. All health insurance plans in the US are required to have a yearly out-of-pocket maximum — for example $10k for each individual — so while your healthcare costs can skyrocket to the moon at least you won't be liable for it.
That's not the whole story, though. Charges that fall outside your policy's coverage are entirely your responsibility. The OOP max refers to services covered by the policy, not 'all health care charges'.
And that's why the US has thousands of medical-caused bankruptcies yearly.
Source: I work for a major insurer/provider on the West Coast.
But there is something to be said for making a bunch of money for a short amount of time and have enough to be buying your house outright. That will set you up for an easier life in the future where you do not need to be a "wage slave" just so you can keep up with the monthly rent or mortgage payments.
Having a guaranteed roof over your head whatever happens (even if you can only afford candles and basic pasta to eat) frees you up a lot. I guess in America it probably doesn't help much since you might need medical treatment one day so you'll need several hundred thousand dollars in reserve for day to day medical expenses, but anywhere else in the world you could live quite happily on the odd small contracting job here and there if you know you have zero housing costs (or close to zero when considering maintenance and taxes etc)