Watching people try to teach John Nagle how to do networking is half the reason why I like reading the HN forums :-).
I'm not one to defer to authority too easily, but it's my experience that, when someone with enough experience says something that sounds out of this world, it's a good idea to think about it for a bit.
Certainly, I'm convinced that neither you, nor the fine folks at BSD were/are clueless about these things. I think it's important to know why these decisions were made, and what trade-offs were involved, so that I don't get dogmatic about them.
I had no idea. This kind of stuff is why I like HN. I have no idea who the real 'celebrities' are. It feels like most of the discussion is on a pretty even ground.
(intended in the most lighthearted way possible!)