I edited my comment realizing I was being too facetious. Force is usually the worst way to get anything done socially. If someone is using force, it means they have failed in every other way, and it'll lead to degrading social bonds, a reduction in cohesion, lower productivity, and future conflict. We live in a society that propagandizes extremely violent power structures and tries to pretend they aren't as violent as they actually are. If force were so ultimate and the true master of human relations, people wouldn't try to so hard to obfuscate it. Force is force. People dislike people who use force. That's why they bend over backwards to justify their force, or dress it up as some other means of mediation.