In my area a lot of women wouldn't respond either unless you had pushed the button that increases the match time, so it was match - wait for response - at 1 hour if you were really wanting to match extend match 24 hours, which then locks you in because you can only extend once per day, and then wait for response.

Sort of understandable because the stereotype goes that most men will right swipe on all and then filter upon match whereas women will filter before swipe.