I'm guessing they won't answer. Separate accounts and such only works for assets you already owned or gifts/inheritance. Even then, the court will factor those in and likely increase the amount you owe in child support or alimony on your income because you're less needy. There's really not much you can do about anything you've earned during the marriage or after (alimomy). The only stuff you could do would be arguing why you deserve more of it based on things like future earning potential, lifestyle, child support, etc. But usually the bread winner is at a disadvantage for these arguments.