Maybe in the ideal world this decision wouldn't be made unilaterally.
In the real world, usually a husband's deference to his wife's choices makes it her choice. If he doesn't defer, there will be arguments until he does.
That's not the ideal view of the world, but it's what I've observed in many friends' relationships.
In the real world, usually a husband's deference to his wife's choices makes it her choice. If he doesn't defer, there will be arguments until he does.
That's not the ideal view of the world, but it's what I've observed in many friends' relationships.